Mothering after child removal: Living under the rule of Greek gods

• Published in: Child & family social work Vol. 23; no. 3; pp. 417 - 426
• Main Authors: Honey, Anne, Mayes, Rachel, Miceli, Melissa
• Format: Journal Article
• Language: English
• Published: Oxford Blackwell Publishing Ltd 01.08.2018
• Subjects: Child Abuse; child removal; Child Safety; Child welfare; Children; Children & youth; Deities; Females; Gender roles; Mental Disorders; mothering; Mothers; parenting; Protection; Support services; Women
• ISSN: 1356-7500; 1365-2206
• DOI: 10.1111/cfs.12432

Many women who experience mental illness are mothers. Evidence suggests that the role of mother is of great importance and value to these women, yet they are more likely than other women to have their children removed from their care. Little is known about the experiences of these mothers after their children are removed. This paper presents a phenomenological analysis of in‐depth interviews with 8 women to answer the following question: How do mothers living with severe mental illness experience mothering after removal of their children by child protection services? The analysis showed that mothering continued to be a major life role for these women, but the way they enacted this role was transformed. Their mothering was now constrained and prescribed by external agents, likened to Greek gods, which imposed both boundaries to what they could do and an obligation to prove themselves worthy. Like Greek gods, these external agents were seen as all powerful, unpredictable, and flawed. The study highlights the need for child protection services and support services to recognize and support noncustodial mothering activities.